It is what it is

And the only thing that looks describe our situation is the chorus of this song. No pain, no hurts. I'm emotionally mature.

"Too long we've been denying

Now we're both tired of trying

We hit a wall and we can't get over it

Nothing to relieve

It's water under the bridge

You said it, I get it

I guess it is what it is..."

(It is what it is - Lifehouse)